"They don't necessarily separate things into sexual and non-sexual based on placement of touches. That is determined by the connection between the people." Tom could settle into this type of discussion easily enough. "Pressing the palms together is a sign of closeness and acceptance. If Aletayria did that with you the meaning would be vastly different than if she and I did that."

He pauses and the crinkles up his brows wondering if they know about Ziggy's biology. "I wouldn't give him a hand massage or put your lips there but he does handshakes all the time because that's human traditions."