Tom listens quietly, just sipping his tea as they explain. However, he's focused and thinking about what they're saying.
"I've never known Ziggy to get angry over someone else's choices about themselves. I think there's something else going on but Ziggy hasn't been very talkative about it." Tom admits. However, he can hazard some guesses about the situation.
"I'm not sure making it look like you will do things that you probably don't want to is the right message. Hell, if I was turned on and someone tried to kiss on me but I knew they didn't physically want me I might get pissed too."
Tom could see the miscommunication and the fact that both of these kids might not have much sexual experience. Tom sighs and sets down his cup. "I think I understand the comments about the fans and you though. You said you wanted or was asking for his emotions because you wanted to connect but you're also very unwilling to connect the way he wants to."
Tom rubbed his forehead with his thumbs and forefingers. "You're from a different Earth and can't know but his life isn't that good for his mental health. He's always got people and fans wanting to bask in his presence, touch him, kiss him, even fuck him just to say they did. It's like his presence is a trophy. I know he's lonely and doesn't get what he needs. I suspect your desire to have his emotional presence while rejecting his physical one brought up some bad memories for him."
Tom is getting a handle on what might be happening but what advice to give, he's not so sure yet. "That is only the sexual miscommunication, culturally there might be other issues. I only spent a small portion of his life with him. Ziggy was mostly raised with Anthean standards of interaction. You might need a crash course to manage better. Especially, now that there are two hybrid kids here and the other one is just as wild."
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"I've never known Ziggy to get angry over someone else's choices about themselves. I think there's something else going on but Ziggy hasn't been very talkative about it." Tom admits. However, he can hazard some guesses about the situation.
"I'm not sure making it look like you will do things that you probably don't want to is the right message. Hell, if I was turned on and someone tried to kiss on me but I knew they didn't physically want me I might get pissed too."
Tom could see the miscommunication and the fact that both of these kids might not have much sexual experience. Tom sighs and sets down his cup. "I think I understand the comments about the fans and you though. You said you wanted or was asking for his emotions because you wanted to connect but you're also very unwilling to connect the way he wants to."
Tom rubbed his forehead with his thumbs and forefingers. "You're from a different Earth and can't know but his life isn't that good for his mental health. He's always got people and fans wanting to bask in his presence, touch him, kiss him, even fuck him just to say they did. It's like his presence is a trophy. I know he's lonely and doesn't get what he needs. I suspect your desire to have his emotional presence while rejecting his physical one brought up some bad memories for him."
Tom is getting a handle on what might be happening but what advice to give, he's not so sure yet. "That is only the sexual miscommunication, culturally there might be other issues. I only spent a small portion of his life with him. Ziggy was mostly raised with Anthean standards of interaction. You might need a crash course to manage better. Especially, now that there are two hybrid kids here and the other one is just as wild."